The fact that we're human with flaws. We're trying to be perfect by learning, practices and mistakes. Impossible to please everyone. And u know what, it's hard to do that. So happiness is not totally about happiness around u , but it's u. When you're happy, than u can treat people well, u can smile genuinely. LEARN to say NO when u think it's best to say so. LEARN to say YES if u know finally u get the chances for things that you're waiting for. Just don't rush into things but it does not mean u need to wait forever, u need to step up when u think it's about time. Respect differences. You need criticism, yes I do believe a government needs a strong opposition to lead a strong nation. A leader should argue or debate for what's really wrong but at the same time able to say yes and open to some criticisms. A human needs to learn to do that. For me, yes I do have ego n I'll always love to win every argument but later, there's regret. Sometimes u regret coz u just let pride get in the way when all u had to do is to say sorry. What makes u better? when you're able to take criticisms as motivation. THE growing process.
Besides that, don't take people for granted. Don't play with feelings. A simple rule is not to please everyone but don't hurt others. Or in other words, Golden rule stated that " One should not treat others in ways that one would not like to be treated.
"What we know when we know? We know what we don't know because the more we know, the more we know we don't know" Steve Job once said "stay hungry, stay foolish".." In the end, those who win are those who think they can." ;)
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